thatsmyjew ([info]thatsmyjew) wrote,
@ 2008-11-10 12:59:00
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Current location:B-more
Current mood: contemplative

I am done with drama....somehow I got myself involved in a whole bunch of drama without even trying....I listened to a new friend tell me how my boyfriend had wronged me....considering she was one of his best friends I listened and she held me while I cryed and gave me the advice that I should break up with him...I did...I mean what she said was so horribly wrong to me....she told me not to tell him it was her that told me b/c she knew he would be mad at her...so I didn't....even though he begged me b/c it hurt him sooo much that someone close to him was spreading shit about him which he told me wasn't true...she told me she would tell him soon just not right now and I believed her b/c well who the fuck knows...So the outcoming of this is so ridiculous...my now ex boyfriend-who is not my ex b/c of what she said but when I confronted him he told me that was lies and he was going to come clean and tell me the truth...which was that he had spent the night in his exes bed with her and that was too much so THAT is why we are no longer together....and then my exes two best friends hate me....one b/c she says I told him she told me...LIE he figured that shit out...its not fucking hard....and the other for not telling him who told me because he accused her!....this is fucking ridiculous and I am fed up...I want to tell all of them to get the fuck out of my life and stay out...I did not move a thousand miles for this bullshit drama...if I want drama I could have stayed back in fucking Tampa!....so my question for you if you read all that...I still care about my ex but now that you know what he did and the bullshit I would have to deal with....should I just cut him and all of it completely out of my life??




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[info]missdark
2007-11-10 09:08 pm UTC (link)
You know that it is ultimately your choice. You have to do what's right for you.

Frankly I don't think it's worth it to deal with the drama his "friends" will cause you. If he cuts them out of his life it might be worth it to get back with him. If he can't see that they aren't really his friends, at least the ex, then he isn't worth it.

If you absolutely believe you're supposed to be together, at least for a while, and you're willing to put up with it. Go for it. But if you are not willing, don't do it.

Plenty of other fish...you're damn quality bait. Should go catch yourself a quality boy.

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[info]thatsmyjew
2007-11-10 10:46 pm UTC (link)
I told him today its completely over....he says he is in love with me but sometimes love isn't enough....there has to be trust and understanding...its hard though b/c I olny know two people up here other than him and one of them lives an hour away in Baltimore.....I think one of the reasons I keep going back to him is I feel all alone up here and I need to feel wanted by someone...my roomate has her bf and my best friend is so far and I wonder if I just disappeared up here if anyone would even notice...I wanted to move and I'm glad I did I just wish it was easier...he says he wants me to come over and he wants to hold me in his arms...which sounds great but I know it would only be a matter of time b4 I thought about what he did and wondered if he would lie again...he has lied to me about 4 times now and its gotten to the point that when he tells me he is going to a show or something I think he is meeting up with other chicks or doing something shady...I don't want to feel that way...I want to be happy...I think I deserve that

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[info]missdark
2007-11-10 11:05 pm UTC (link)
You do deserve better. Four times is way too many times to even consider taking him back after. Relationships are built on communication and trust. If he fucked up he should admit it. Not lie. Then things can be worked out.

Have you met very many other people that you'd consider being friends with? How about people you work with? Sounds like you need to get a new group of friends up there.

You'll be alright. Just stay positive. I love you darlin'.

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[info]thatsmyjew
2007-11-11 02:10 am UTC (link)
yeah the people I work with are cool but no one else there has a car so its a pain in the ass to be the one always doing the driving....ps I love and miss you!

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[info]kellyofthejelly
2007-11-12 02:35 am UTC (link)
I think you've made the right decision.
You deserve all the happiness in the world
not any of this drama bullshit!

I love you and miss you!
I know it must be hard to not know that
many people up there but before you know it you will have tons of friends!

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